Rapists and Donor Bone Marrow

Can anyone mistake, anyone can make it up...

In 2002 the Italian Daily Post, the ad appeared particularly those who search.

Here's her story:

May 17, 1992 in the car park 5 Wayeli, a white woman raped by a black man. Soon after, the woman gave birth to a black woman. She and her husband suddenly bear responsibility for maintaining this child. Unfortunately, the baby is now suffering from leukemia

(blood cancer). And he needs a bone marrow transfer back soon.

His biological father is the only connective life expectancy. Hope that the perpetrators of rape at the time when I saw this story, willing to contact Dr. Adely in hospital Elisabeth.

News Search this person makes the whole community in an uproar. Everyone is talking about. The problem is whether this black man dared come And clearly he would face great difficulty, if he dared to appear, he would face legal problems, and might damage the life of his own household. If he still insisted on silence, he once again made the unforgivable sin. The story of how this will end?

A girl who suffered from leukemia turned out to save an embarrassing story in an Italian village. Martha, 35 yrs, is a woman who becomes everyone's conversation.

She and her husband Peterson is white, but between the two children, there was a black one. It attracted everyone around them to ask, Martha just smiled a little to say to them that the grandmother was black, and white grandfather, the son Monika got this chance

In fall 2002, black Monika continue to experience a high fever. Finally, Dr. Monika Adely sentenced to suffer leukemia. The only hope is to find bone marrow pedonor most suitable for him. The doctor explains further.

Among those who have blood relations with Monika is the easiest way to find pedonor tercocok. Hope all your family members gathered to undergo bone marrow examination.

Martha's face changed, but still the whole family tests. The result matched none. The doctor told them, in a case like this Monika, seeking a suitable pedonor very unlikely. Now there is only one of the most effective way, that is Martha and her husband returned with child again. And children to donate blood for Monika. Hearing this proposal Martha suddenly became panicked, and said without the voice of God.

Why be like this?

He looked at her husband, her eyes filled with fear and despair. Peterson frowned thinking. Dr. Adely trying to explain to them, now many people use this way to help the lives of people with leukemia, and besides this way for a new baby is born absolutely no effect. This is only heard by the couple, and thoughtfully so long. Finally they just said, Let us think again.

The second night, Dr. Adely the rotation task, suddenly opened his office door, the couple are husband and wife. Martha bit her lip hard, her husband Peterson, holding her hand, and the doctor said gravely. We have some things to tell you. But do you promise to maintain the confidentiality of this, because this is our secret husband and wife for several years. 

Dr. Adely nodded his head.

That was 10 years ago, in May 1992. At that time our first child, Eleana was 2 years old. Martha worked at a fast food restaurant. Every day at home just 10 nights of work. That night, heavy rain. When Martha comes home from work, the whole street has no single person. When through an unused parking lot again.

Mendengan Martha's footsteps, with the fear turned his head to look, a black teenager was standing behind her. The person using a stick, hit him unconscious, and raped her. When Martha realized, and come home in a hurry, it was already 1 o'clock in the evening. At the time I leave the house like a mad search for the black people to make calculations. But there has been no one single image. That night we were only able to hold his head held each pain. Looks like the whole sky was falling apart.

Speak up here, Peterson has been flooded with tears, he went back. Soon after Martha found herself pregnant. We feel very scared, worried when the child she is carrying a black person it belongs. Martha plans to abort, but I still expect good luck, maybe the child she is carrying a baby. That, we fear waiting for several months. March 1993, Martha gave birth to a baby girl, and she was black. We were so desperate, never occurred to send the child to the orphanage. But hear her crying, we really do not have the heart. Moreover after Martha had conceived him, he was also a life.

Me and Martha was a devout Christian citizens, in the end we decided to keep him, and gave him the name of Monika.

Dr. Mata. Adely also filled with tears, he finally understood why for both husband and wife is with child again is very worrying. He thought, nodding his head saying Indeed, if so, you gave birth to 10 children would be difficult even to find a suitable donor for Monika.

Some time later, she looked at Martha and said look, you have to find the biological father of Monika. Perhaps the bone marrow, or spinal cord is a suitable child for Monika. But, if you're willing to let it back up in your life?

She said: "For the kids, I'm willing to forgive him charitable. If he was willing to come rescue her. I will not memperkarakannya. Dr. Adely was surprised by the depth of love the mother. News this particular search result in a flood pedonor spinal cord.

Moreover, so long overdue, to search for the rapist in which Martha and Peterson consider it carefully, before deciding to load this search news in the paper by using a pseudonym. November 2002, the news contained koranWayeli this search, as described previously. This information is begging the perpetrator of rape when it dared to appear, in order to help the life of a leukemia patient's daughter!

Once this news came out, the public response was staggering. Mailbox and phone Dr. Adely just like exploded, flooded with incoming mail and phone, people kept asking who this woman they wanted to meet him, hoping to provide assistance to him. But Martha refused all their attention, iatak want his identity revealed, more do not want anymore Monika identity as a child of rape came to light.

We have also all the media is full of discussion about how this story ends. (Rome newspaper) comments on the topic: the black man will munculkah? If these brave black men emerged, how the public will judge us now Will use the law to judge him Should he accept the punishment and scolding to his past, or whether he should receive praise for his courage today? (Wayeli Newspapers) manulis topic If you were black people, what do you do? as a discussion. And attract a variety of opinions would be difficult to be in two of these options. Part of the local jail continually strive to help Martha, gave a report sentence convicted in 1992 in the RS. Due to the number of black people in this city only a little, then in the last 10 years is also only a little amount of black inmate. They said to Martha: Even if some people are not punished for acts of rape, but maybe some also see things like this.

Some people also have been partly out of jail, others still in prison. Martha and Peterson contacted some of these people, so much time inmates are sincere and enthusiastic to give guidance.

But unfortunately, they all are not black people who raped her at that time. Shortly thereafter, Martha story spread through the house of detention, not a convict who moved by this mother's love, whether they were black or white, they are all volunteers signed up to undergo bone marrow examination, hoping to mendonorkannya for Monika. But none that meet the criteria pedonor between them.

This search news touching many people, not a few people who volunteered to undergo bone marrow examination, to determine whether he meets the criteria. The volunteers more and more increasing, the epidemic comes Wayeli to donate bone marrow.

This is surprising is the willingness of these volunteers saved a lot of other leukemia sufferers, Monika unfortunately not included among the lucky ones. Martha and Peterson forward with the emergence of panic blacks. Finally, two months have passed, this person did not show-up as well. By not quiet, they start thinking, maybe the black people had already left this world he might have left all the way home. It has long been not in Italy. Maybe he was not willing to destroy his own life, do not want to appear.

But no matter what, as long as Monika live another day, they were not willing to give up hope for black people. While an uncertain miserable soul, hope is always in times of despair swept back up.

At that news also appears on the search Napulese, ravaged the feelings of a liquor store manager 30-year-old. He was a black man, named Ajili. May 17, 1992 at that time, he has a tergelam sheets worst nightmare in that rainy night. He is the main role in this story. No one thinks, Ajili the very wealthy that, once worked as a dishwasher calls. Because their parents have died since iamasih young, he had never received his education had to work early. He is so smart and nimble, hoping his own work diligently to get a little money and respect from others. But unfortunately, his boss is a racist, which is always mendiskriminasikannya.

No matter any segiat himself, always hitting and cursing him. May 17, 1992, is the 20th birthday, he planned to leave work early to celebrate his birthday. Who would have thought, amid a bustle he broke the plate. The boss held his head, forcing him to swallow pieces of the plate. Ajili was so angry and beat the boss, then ran out of the restaurant. Amid the anger he was determined to take revenge on the white man. Heavy rainy night, no one passed, and in the park he met Martha. To avenge pendiskriminasian result, he was raping the woman was innocent.

But have done so, Ajili started to panic and fear. That same evening he was using his birthday money to buy a train ticket to Napulese, leaving the city. In Napulese, he met his luck. Ajili find work smoothly in the restaurant owned by Americans. Both American pairs are very admiring his ability, and married him merka daughter, Lina, and ultimately trust to manage their stores. Some of this year, iayang so agile, not only promote the liquor store business, he also has 3 children funny.

Eyes of other employees and all family members, Ajili a good boss, a good husband, good father. But his conscience kept him not to forget the sins ever done.

He always begged forgiveness of God and expect God to protect women who had raped, hoping he has always lived a peaceful and serene. But he kept his secret meetings, do not tell anyone. Morning, Ajili repeatedly flipping through the newspaper, he continued to consider the possibility he was the actor in question. The least he never imagined that the poor woman was pregnant with his child, even bear the responsibility to maintain and protect children who initially was not hers.

That day, Ajili several times tried to contact no. Phone Dr. Adely. But each time, have not been pressing the phone button, he had closed it again. His heart continued to contradict, if he was willing to admit it, everyone will know later this worst, his children would no longer love her, she will lose her family a happy and beautiful wife. Also lose respect for the surrounding community. All that he gained by hard work exchanged for many years. That night, at dinner together, the whole family to discuss the case of Martha. His wife, Lina said:

"I really admire Martha. When I diposisinya, I will not have the courage to maintain the rape of a child to adulthood. I was more admired more Martha's husband, he was a man who deserves respect, no surprise he can accept such a child ". Ajili pensive listen to his wife, and suddenly ask the question: If so, how do you look at the rape perpetrator?

The least I will not forgive him! At that time he had made a mistake, this time can only be menyelingkupi curled himself, he really so low, so selfish, so cowardly! He is really a coward! so she replied with a flame-filled rage. Ajili listening only, not daring to tell the fact to his wife. That night, her 5-year-old was so fussy not willing to sleep, for the first time Ajili lost patience and slapped him. The boy, weeping said: "You're the father of evil, I do not care about you anymore. I do not want you to be my father ". Ajili heart to hear it as hard hit, he tightly hugged his son and said: "Sorry, dad would not hit you again. Dad was wrong, I'm sorry papa yes ".

Until here, Ajili suddenly cried. The boy was surprised to be made, and quickly told him to calm his father: "Well, I forgive. My kindergarten teacher said, a good son is a child who would repair the damage. That night, Ajili can not sleep, felt like burning in hell. His eyes always imagined that night's heavy rain, and the shadow of the woman. He seemed to hear the wild cry of the woman. Unceasingly he asked himself: "I was actually a good guy, or bad people?" At the sound of her breathing regular, he lost all his courage to stand up. The second day, he could hardly stand it. His wife began to feel the irregularities on him, paying attention to him by asking if there is a problem and she found excuses not feeling well to get him. In the morning hours, the employees greeted him pleasantly: "Good morning, manager!" At that, his face suddenly becomes pale, the heart was filled with feelings of uncertainty and shame. He felt himself nearly went mad it feels.

After days of examining his conscience, can no longer Ajili kept silent, she began to call Dr. Adely. He is trying hard to keep her voice to remain calm: "I want to know the state of that poor child. Dr. Adely told, the child's condition is severe. Dr. Adely added last sentence says: "I wonder what he can wait on the appearance of her real father. This last sentence touched the deepest Ajili, a warm feeling as the father ran out, however, that the child is his own flesh and blood! He was determined to help Monika. He has made a mistake once, can not let him go back to this error.

That night, he was fueling his own courage to tell his wife about all the secrets. Finally he said: "It's possible that I was the father of Monika, I have to save Lina was very surprised, angry and hurt, heard everything, he shouted angrily:" You're a liar! "

That same night iamembawa their three children, and ran home to his mother's father's house. When he told them about the story Ajili, anger both husband and wife immediately subsided. They are two old men full of life experience, they advise: "It is true, we should be angry about all Ajili behavior in the past. But have you ever thought, he could reach him to appear, to how much courage.

This proves that his conscience was not completely buried. Do you expect a husband who had made a mistake but now willing to improve her husband seornag Or forever keep this decay in it? "At this Lina thoughtfully for some time. Early in the morning on the day Second, he immediately returned to the side Ajili, the husband's eyes filled with suffering, his heart set Lina said: "Ajili, go see Dr.. Adely! I'll keep you company! "

February 3, 2003, husband and wife Ajili, contact Dr. Adely. February 8, the couple arrived at the Elisabeth Hospital, in order for the examination of DNA Ajili. Ajili result really is the father of Monika. When Martha learned that black people rapists eventually led to his courage, he could not hold back her tears. Ten years he continued to harbor resentment against Ajili, but now he just overwhelmed with emotion. Everything took place in silence. In order to protect the spouse and spouse Martha Ajili, the hospital did not disclose their identities clearly all the media, and also not willing to reveal the truth, they just told the media that the birth father has been found Monika.

This news shocked the whole of this news watchers. They keep calling, writing a letter to Dr. Adely, pleading for them to express outrage at this black man, as well as their respect for him. They argue: "Maybe he never committed a crime, but this time he was a hero!"

February 10, two pairs Martha and her husband begged to be able to meet directly with Ajili. Ajili originally did not dare to meet them, but on the third petition Martha, she began to accept this. February 18, in a closed room and kept in the hospital, Martha met with Ajili.

Ajili had just cut his hair, when she saw Martha, his footsteps were very heavy, his face paled. Martha and her husband stepped forward, and together they each shook hands with each, while three men are still holding a silent pain, the tears before they flow together. Some time later, his voice hoarse Ajili said: "Sorry. . . please forgive me! "This sentence has been buried deep in my heart for 10 years. Today I finally got a chance to say it directly to you. Martha replied: "Thank you can come. May God bless, that marrow spine can help my daughter ".

February 19, doctors perform bone-marrow examination Ajili. Fortunately, bone marrow is very suitable for Monika The doctor said with enthusiasm: "It's a miracle!"

February 22, 2003, so long the public expectation terkabulkan end. Monika received spinal Ajili, and eventually Monika has passed the critical period. One week later, Monika allowed to leave the hospital in good health. Martha and her husband fully forgive Ajili, and specifically invites and Dr Ajili. Adely come to their house to celebrate. But that day Ajili not present, he begged Dr. Adely brought the letter to them. In his letter he expressed remorse and shame said: "I do not want to disrupt the quiet life back to you. I hope Monika happy always live and grow up with you. If you have trouble anyway, please contact me, I'll do my best to help you ". Right now, I am very grateful to Monika, from the deepest depths of my heart, it was he who gave me a chance to atone for sins. It was he who made me able to have a life really happy in the next half of my age. This is a gift that he gave me!

Diposkanoleh Livia Novita Kaseger